| 10. |
Flirting is an
attitude: A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to
take risks. Be enthusiastic and positive, it works! |
| 9. |
Start a conversation:
The best opening line is saying hello. Talk about the surroundings,
ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion. |
| 8. |
Have fun: Be playful,
light-hearted and spontaneous. Show your vulnerability. |
| 7. |
Use props: Never
leave home without a prop. Props are natural conversation
starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled
to start talking to you. Great props include: dogs, kids,
unusual jewelry, a fabulous scent, a sweatshirt with your
favorite passion, interesting ties, hats, or an interesting
book or newspaper. |
| 6. |
Be the host: Change
your behavior from the role of guest to host. You are not
the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee. |
| 5. |
Make the first
move: Move closer to the person you want to meet. Say hello! |
| 4. |
Listen: You have
two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as
much as you speak. Listening is a true art. Your flirting
partner will be drawn to you. Everyone loves to be heard. |
| 3. |
Eye contact: Make
eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently
(no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away. Don’t stare
– it’s a turn off. |
| 2. |
Compliment: Compliment
your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element
of surprise. The "flirtee" will know that you really
noticed them. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere
and genuine. When you receive a compliment the best response
is merely, Thank You! |
| 1. |
Smile: It is contagious.
It will make you so much more approachable. A smile lights
up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people
magnet. Try it! |
Your
home on Earth
